That Naughty Waltz
How To Approach A Girl
One of the most difficult things I had to overcome was approaching women. No matter where I was, I just couldn’t approach a woman. I was like a scared kid who couldn’t start a conversation to save my life.
Slowly though, over time, I got to the point where I could approach any woman I wanted to. But it took a lot of courage and guts. I can now go up to any woman anywhere and strike up a conversation and ask for a date.
I learned that I need to prep myself before I went out.
After half a decade here are my three critical secrets. The secrets are here.
Club Bar: How To Approach Women
Simplicity on what I learned is powerful. Assert your dominance by teasing them: for they have major ADD in clubs and more around a lot.
This is my favorite opener: You will only need this one opener. Here it is: Hey, you guys seem cool. Are you friendly?
Easy and basic but to the point. Pretty direct but to the point. It’s so basic that 90% of women are going to answer. “No, we are not friendly.” If that is the case, say this: OMG! You are such a dork! Or, Is she always like this? That’s the teases I was talking about. I have given these teases Naughty Banter. Dominance it shows. From here you can take the discussion anywhere you want.
Use this in conversation all the time. You don’t need 10 openers–you will never get good with that many. just use this one. Become a master at this. Always use it–it’s the only way.
In The Streets
Many times women will catch you off guard. You can be at the grocery store or at the DMV or at Target. You just saw the woman of your dreams and she is leaving the store. To do, that’s the question.
Just use this conversational starter: Hey, I know that this is a bit random, but I just had to come see what you were like. I noticed you and wanted to see if you are more than just a pretty face. Hi, my name is _____.
That’s all you have to say. Easy and clean. Now your goal here is to get her number to set a coffee date. A woman has a goal to get to a place: that’s why they are out and about, and so you have maybe a minute or two at best.
The point here is to not let her slip away. Even if she says she is married or has a boyfriend, you will feel like a million dollars because you had the guts to get what you want..
The Shy Conversational Starter
Here’s the best of the best. It works every time and it works anywhere: bar/club, out in the streets, anywhere.
Most women will find this kind of cute. Here it is: Hello there! I would like very much to meet you, but I don’t know what to say, or I don’t have the nerve to say it.
That’s it! It’s amazing how well this works. What happens afte that is up to you.
Practice will make you just get better. That’s the ticket. The more you practice the more relaxed you will be–hence the better results you will get. You will have the ablity to talk to any woman anywhere, and that’s a pretty good feeling.
“That Naughty Waltz”, Eddy Brown